Of Bayville, N.Y. on August 16, 2012. Beloved son of Joseph and Ann Lodato. Cherished husband of Gwen, also survived by her children Sasha and Sophie. Loving brother of Deborah, Christopher (Norma) Jespergard. Step-brother of Joseph Lodato, and Paula Nelson. Also survived my many nieces and nephews, and his devoted dog Jasper.